People think that if they have a solution to their problems, then the problem will go away. Makes sense right? Wrong.
You need to release and let go of the problem even BEFORE you have the solution. As a matter of fact, if you explore deeper in the depths of your mind, you will find that a part of you draws a dark pleasure out of having the problem. 😧
Feeling understood, unique, validated, important, empathizing through suffering, having an identity – these are just a few of the payoffs we gain out of problems.
And sometimes therapists, who are supposed to help you get unstuck, nurture this masochistic culture of validation, being understood, poor you, I’m sorry for you, etc. But who is focusing on success, solutions, results and happiness? 😅
We need to break these identifications with pain, problems, suffering and negative, and you need to RAISE your personal standards and refuse to feed negative in your life. This is how you dominate yourself and your life.
To your success!
Giuseppe Tavella, Dpdr & Dissociation Specialist
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